Sunday, October 26, 2008

DEBRA'S PARENTS HERE!










We are thankful to have Mom and Dad Goertzen visiting with us this week and I thought I would share a few pictures, plus I'm due for an update anyway. Since Mom and Dad have been here, we've already done quite a bit. We enjoyed an apple orchard/farm that had a really fun play area for the kids. We went to the horse races at Keenland for the last day of the fall meet there on Saturday and got to again experience the thrill of the crowds and the speed and beauty of the horses. Tim took Rachel and Ruth and Mom to a Lexington Philharmonic concert Friday night because Ruth's teacher told us there was a cello soloist and they all enjoyed that night out. And we all went to the Lexington Phil's family concert today with Peter and the Wolf and the Lexington Ballet embellishing with some great dancing. Even Joe and Bekah came and enjoyed that, along with the orchestra "petting zoo" beforehand. Now we have a busy school week ahead, but Mom and Dad should also get in on a little recital Rachel and Ruth are playing in this Thursday afternoon before heading back to Minnesota on Friday.

As far as a general update on how life is going for us, I don't have much new to add from previous posts. We've had a little girl sleepover and and a men and boys' campout, a women's retreat and Shaker village where I led the musical worship, a recital Ruth played in, more piano students for me, more computer work for Tim, more stress with home-schooling and discussions on what to do next year, plans to possibly rent out our house in Minnesota and put selling on hold for a while. . . and obviously this is only to name a few things in our lives! (and I don't always have pictures for everything though now that I'm a blogger I think I'm supposed to somehow! We are now enjoying time with family and looking forward to seeing more of you at Christmas time. God bless!

Thursday, October 2, 2008

Fort Boonesborough and more









We went to Fort Boonesborough as a family along with a few families from our kids' homeschool group this past Saturday. They had many reenactors at the fort and in an added Indian village this weekend, they shot off a real cannon, acted out a siege for us where the Indians attacked the fort, and really allowed us to experience life with blacksmiths, old-fashioned stores and clothes, and for Joe the highlight, of course, guns.

On Sunday following our field trip, Rachel played violin in her first recital. I accompanied her and she did a wonderful job. Unfortunately, my pictures to choose from for this event are very limited because Tim was trying to keep Joe and Beka quiet as we played. But it was a good experience, we went out for ice-cream with her violin teacher afterwards, and enjoyed the time. Ruth is really progressing on cello and will be playing in a recital soon, too. We are considering having her audition for a school for the creative and performing arts, in which they have most of their openings for kids going into 4th grade next year. We just went to a meeting there this week and are still praying and considering on it. It is a public school, but audition only and they truly receive an arts education which we could get excited about.

I am enjoying the cooler weather - even though it has still been quite warm. It's finally feeling a little more "fallish" and the leaves are just beginning to turn. The kids are having a lot more fun playing outside now that it isn't as hot and Tim and I enjoy our chances to get out and run a lot more.

Piano teaching is going very well. I'm really enjoying teaching this time around and still looking to add a few more students into my schedule. Tim is enjoying his worship position at Victory, creatively planning and rehearsing choir and praise teams, working with the youth and kids on Wednesday nights, not to mention other pastoral responsibilities and being the primary teacher for Rachel and Ruth on their schoolwork. (Tim has always been kind of amazing to me. Still glad I married him. :) It has its challenges and the church is not exempt from the economic issues facing everyone right now. Certainly, with our house not selling and other things going on, we just have to rely on God step by step for guidance.

We are looking forward to a visit from my parents in October, plus I am planning worship for an upcoming women's retreat. Then before we know it we'll be coming back for Christmas. Thanks to all our friends and family for your love and prayers!

Saturday, September 13, 2008

Fall Facts and Fun






Hi, I wanted to update everyone on how our fall is shaping up. If you could call this fall when it is still 90 degrees! In the past month, many things have begun and a few have ended. Bye bye backyard swimming pool and unstructured days. At the end of August we celebrated 36 years for me (and yes, all the candles still fit on the cake) and we enjoyed meeting up with Tim's godfather, Duane Roller, who lives in a neighboring town to us. I also have encountered allergies of various kinds and know the testing of my immune system produces mucus and mucus when fully. . . . oh, never mind. :)

The kids have started school with Daddy and have had a few weeks of their homeschool group, Classical Conversations. Things are going well, though there are adjustments to be made for everyone. For CC, they have to do a presentation each week and it ends up being a lot of work for Mommy! But it is good for them to learn to prepare these little speeches on things they are interested in and learn to present them. As far as the bulk of their school, Tim is an excellent teacher for them and I have been impressed with his dedication and organization. It has been a relief for me, though I am still working with the kids on many things during the day.

I have started teaching 7 piano students so far (not counting Rachel and Ruth.) Hopefully there will be more. If I had any concerns about leaving at supper time, this week put those concerns to rest. I had given Rachel instructions about doing a lot of the supper prep herself but I knew Tim would be there to help her. Well, he confessed to snoozing on the couch and I came home to homemade banana bread and tacos which Rachel had made from start to finish! She keeps wondering why we are so proud.

Rebekah is growing into the 2-year old that she is now. She is very excited about the "bike" she's been given to use (it's really a tricycle with a push-handle for us to maneuver her) and equally thrilled with her new "holmet" as she calls it. She is very happy to use her little potty frequently, though she is not fully trained, and she is getting more talkative all the time. I won't give you a run-down on all the kids, but she's probably changed the most since we moved.

God has really provided what we've needed this past month. We hit a point of crisis financially (or a realization that we were already there) and we chose to find counsel and act on it. We've seen amazing provisions rain down especiallly since we decided to give the whole tithe in faith. We are still trying to sell a car and a house, of course, and ask your continued prayers for those things.

We miss everyone back "home" in Minnesota and other friends and family that may be reading this, too. In particular, we have grieved with those who have lost loved ones in the Faith Baptist family during this past month or so. We have also rejoiced with good friends who have adopted and given birth recently. It has been very difficult to do those things with the amount of distance that separates us but our hearts are definitely there. We are looking forward to a visit from my parents in October and in a couple more months hopefully coming back to a white Christmas! God bless!

Tuesday, August 19, 2008

The Best of Summer and Plans for Fall









Hi, I just wanted to put some good pictures from this summer up for you, including a couple from Rebekah's 2nd birthday which we celebrated at a park this past Saturday. It has been a beautiful summer here and even August has not been uncomfortably hot like we are told it normally is. We have enjoyed a lot of good times together as a family, though as we have been making our fall plans there have been many things to discuss.

Just to remind you, we would appreciate prayers for our house in Minneapolis to sell. This has not been an easy situation financially and we are trying to make some decisions to move in the right direction in this area of our lives, but that would really help us! We are planning on having Tim do the majority of the home-schooling this year, so that will be a change - one I don't think I mind so much! :) And I will be taking on as many piano students as I can manage in the afternoons/evenings, many of them through a local music school run out of a large church here which I will be teaching at. All three of the older kids will be in a home-school group called Classical Conversations where they will have a classroom setting with teachers, where homework and presentations will be done on a variety of subjects. It meets once every week. This group meets at our church, which we are now enjoying being only 2 blocks away from so that will be convenient! I have also joined Bible Study Fellowship and will be studying the life of Moses, while Joe and Bekah will be in the kids' preschool program for this group (which is very good and I'm excited) and Rachel and Ruth will have "study hall" at church with Daddy. The girls will continue their music lessons in violin and cello, thanks to scholarship programs and other help we've been thankful to receive during this time. And Tim is especially excited about a new Wednesday night program for the kids at our church that he is involved in where they will be learning a variety of songs, signing, and dramatic sketches as well as being taught their bible lessons.

It has been a time of praying and planning, seeking to not be anxious about anything - though I can't say we've succeeded on that - but with thanksgiving to present our requests to God! Love you all.

Wednesday, August 6, 2008

Vacation/Conference in Maryland!











Our family just returned from a very blessed week in Maryland. Tim had a conference out there and I tagged along to meet my Uncle Joe (my mom's "baby" brother) and my Aunt Ginger, and to see a friend from college - Grace - and to meet her family. We all stayed with my aunt and uncle in Frederick, Maryland. They were wonderful hosts and it was such a joy to get to know them and even meet some first cousins on my mom's side of the family. (I have never met any on her side until now.) So not only was Tim's worship conference a real highlight and encouragement for him, my time out there was very enjoyable and worthwhile as well. The kids are already asking when they will see Uncle Joe and Aunt Ginger again.

Some of the things we did - took all the kids to Washington D.C. via the metro which was quite an experience. Walking around in 90 degree weather on the mall, Joe commented that it was just like a big park but with no playground. He probably got the most enjoyment out of the rockets and dinosaurs we saw in museums that day, however, and he is still enjoying his space toys we got him at the Air and Space Museum.

Another day we got to drive across the Annapolis Bay Bridge to spend time at a house right on Chesapeake Bay! My friend, Grace (along with her family), happened to be house-sitting there that week. We enjoyed the time with them, the pool and hot-tub, the crab-catching even though we aren't crab eaters, and the beautiful mood-changing scenery out over the bay. We are still discussing how much a property like that must be worth! But it is always great to catch up with good friends and we were thankful for that opportunity.

A couple of things I did when Tim was at the conference was to enjoy the historic town of Frederick with my aunt and uncle - including some fun for the kids at the old governor's mansion where they got to dress up and enjoy "old-time" toys, Rachel, Uncle Joe, and I enjoyed a delightful chamber music concert at Hood College, and we had a day at a state park called "Cunningham Falls" in the Cococtin Moutains, where there was a beautiful swimming beach at a lake. The kids so enjoyed that and so did I - Minnesota, I miss your lakes!

And I probably miss you if you are reading this! It's back to reality for us now. God bless!

Wednesday, July 23, 2008

Stokes' "Smokey" 10th Anniversary!






This past weekend Tim and I celebrated our 10th anniversary in the Smokey Mountains, staying at a resort called "Mountain Loft," which was beautifully tucked away from the hustle and bustle of the family vacation destination, Gatlinberg, TN. We were so grateful for the opportunity, given to us by friends from church who had enough timeshare points to share generously with us. Not only that, they watched our kids the whole weekend! What a blessing.

We thoroughly enjoyed time to enjoy the beauty of God's creation, hiking quite a bit at the Smokey Mountain National Park. I found out Tim's sense of adventure definitely exceeds mine, though! He wore me out with a hike on Saturday, but at least we could go back to the resort and take a nap! And then go swimming outside with a beautiful view of the mountains - can't complain. We woke up to that same beautiful view, in fact. They built the units to each have a mountain view.

This time was truly a gift from God in the midst of a very crazy time in our lives. We had to be prepared to move to the day after we came back! We did just that and now I continue to be in the middle of a certain amount of chaos. We are unpacking, doing Vacation Bible School at our church every night this week, and preparing for a trip to Maryland next week. So I can't imagine anything more on our plate right now. But praise God for His blessings in the midst of our craziest times.

Sunday, July 13, 2008

Illinois Family Reunion!






We enjoyed a couple of days this past week with much of Tim's family and extended family on Tim's dad's side. We stayed at his Aunt Kathy's big country house along with Tim's parents and many of his siblings and their families. The kids had a blast with grandparents and cousins, aunts and uncles, great aunts and great uncles, and even got to meet their great-grandma. We enjoyed the break from our routine to hang out in the country with the picturesque cows and corn fields, go creek-stomping, see lots of farm equipment, play lots of cribbage, and do lots of nothing except hang out with family! We were very thankful for the opportunity and took some fun pictures to share. Included is Tim walking across the creek on a log with Beka sleeping on his shoulder! There are more pics I'd like to share later, but here's a start. God bless!